Are You Being Rude in English?

As you may know, politeness in English – especially in British English – is a very important thing. Learners often struggle to keep up with the confusing grammar and long sentences, so in this episode, I break down a few key phrases that you can start using today to make your questions and requests sound more polite.

I go through each phrase one by one and explain how we use it, give an example anecdote from my own life where I could use it, and also end each section with a question to get you thinking.

Episode Summary

Here’s a review of the points I mentioned in the episode.

Could I just… 🙏

A softer way to make a request. Common in everyday life.

Question: What would you do in that situation?

Would you mind…? 🤔

A classic polite phrase with a tricky yes/no response.

Question: What’s your view on smoking in public?

Do you mind if…? 🚉

Useful when asking for permission in social spaces.

Question: What’s your view on seat covering?

Sorry (for interruptions) 🙋

Often not a real apology—just a polite way to get attention.

Question: Do you ask for someone’s name the moment you meet them?

Would it be alright if…? ✍️

A slightly more formal way to ask for something.

Question: Would you be happy to let others use your bathroom?

I was wondering if… 💭

Using past tense makes requests sound gentler.

Question: Do you think menu changes are okay?

If it’s not too much trouble… 🧳

Perfect for bigger or slightly inconvenient requests.

Question: What is some taxi etiquette you believe in?

I don’t suppose you could…? 🙃

A negative form that makes the request extra polite.

Question: Do you give money to homeless or beggars?

⭐️ Transcript & Bonus Lesson

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