How to Learn English if You're Shy
I reached out to my Instagram followers and they had some good advice on learning English as a shy person.
They said that they:
Follow people on social media, read English books and listen to podcasts
Read everything I see in English and listen to how people talk
This is great advice for learning without leaving your comfort zone. However, they haven’t mentioned speaking! For many people, this is the most important part of learning a language.
I also spoke with my student, Catia, who had some fantastic advice.
Improve your confidence – it’s the most important thing. Overcome the fear of speaking and then you’ll improve. Practising speaking a foreign language will help you improve speaking in your native language too.
Speak. Make mistakes. Don’t worry about what other people think. Just be yourself.
Native speakers make mistakes too. When you start speaking with them you’ll notice this. Did you get an A in your native language exam? If so, that’s great! If you didn’t, you can see my point?
My Personal Experience
I used to be very shy – too shy to pick up the phone and talk to my friends. After many years of practice, I’m have improved and have made great progress overcoming this. I still have some way to go but I’ve definitely learnt that making mistakes is not a big deal in foreign languages.
Small increments of change will amount to a lot over time.
Make a small goal every day. Don’t reach for the stars.
If possible, say one English word to someone every time you go out.
If you’re not in a situation to speak English, maybe even try your native language!
Get comfortable going to English restaurants or something similar and start with just a hello and as you keep returning there you’ll be able to manage more. (maybe go with friends too because you will want to show off your English to them!)
Most people will be very impressed if you know some words. Just let them know you’re learning and they’ll be patient
Also, I would recommend…
Begin with online teachers. You can feel very comfortable in your own home.
Most online teachers know how you feel – the first time they teach is the same – very scary!
English In The Media
Chernobyl – TV Series
You’re treading on dangerous ground
= doing something that’s likely to cause upset or problems for people
The people’s lust for revenge (which is something really really dangerous) it makes it very attractive to find scapegoats. As to throw meat to the dogs.
= Lust for revenge – a strong desire to do something bad to a bad person
= Scapegoat – someone to blame for a problem
= Throw meat to the dogs – giving them what they want
To come out of one’s shell
Listen to the end of the podcast to find out what this means.